Welcome to our blog.

This was our original purpose for creating this blog:

We are both baby boomers fast approaching sixty. This blog will chronicle the time leading up to reaching our significant day. Our mutual goal is to complete sixty specific tasks each by our 60th birthdays, and to both celebrate our experiences and our accomplishments.

We are "the fabled tortoise" in this effort. Our blog will begin with a slow start, so we ask for your patience. We are aiming for a strong finish, so we ask for your encouragement. We invite you to join us on our journey, laugh and cry with us, and celebrate with us. We encourage you to leave us your comments and feedback. Most of all, we hope you become inspired to perhaps create and complete your very own "___ by ___ list."

We borrowed this idea from a blog one of our nieces told us about: http://makingitlovely.com . The author is working on her list of "30 Before Thirty."

As we progressed we continued to reflect on the process and the progress:

We would like to make a point of clarification. Because we did not begin our endeavor until April that left us both with less than a year to complete all 60 tasks on each of our lists. Actually, JR has about four months and CEA has about seven months. For that reason we agreed that we would both use CEA's birthday so that we both have the same amount of time to complete our tasks.

Now we are both 60 and moving forward. We have decided to continue the blog, setting goals and celebrating our accomplishments, sharing our experiences and voicing our thoughts, and enjoying life by making the most of every day with which we are blessed.

Saturday, October 16, 2010

CEA's update #26

Item #57 :  Go visit friend Joan.
Did it!  I'm wrapping up a three-day visit with Joan.  We've had a wonderful time visiting antique shops, eating at ladies' tearooms, seeing "Secretariat," and touring one of the few remaining small-town downtown movie theaters.

Sunday, October 10, 2010

JR's Item #71: (done) Repair porch steps.

I have a wooden porch with five wooden steps leading up to the porch.  Three of the steps were rotting and becoming a hazard.  I replaced those steps and still have enough materials to replace the other two steps in the near future.  It's nice to complete a job and be able to see the results of your efforts.  Life is great!

JR's Item #1: (done) Reread Sink Reflections.

A number of years ago, I read Sink Reflections by Marla Cilley (The FlyLady) after CEA had read and recommended it. 

Getting organized, being organized, staying organized...  for me this is a struggle.  For all the years that I worked, I was a workaholic.  I worked all the time.  When I wasn't working, I was always busy doing something.  Then I retired and I was home in my small house with thirty-five plus years of material and resources.  Last fall I acquired several additional piece of furniture.  My house has become a storage space and not a home.  Worse, the job of reclaiming my house has become more and more overwhelming.  So I decided to reread Sink Reflections.

The only thing that I remembered about the book is that I liked it.  I had tried some things, but never kept up with them.  What I didn't remember, didn't get, or wasn't ready to hear at the time was Marla's explanation for why we live in clutter and chaos and why we can't fight our way out.  I don't know if it applies to everyone else, but it applies to me.  I confess I am a perfectionist and being a perfectionist is keeping me from making progress in decluttering and organizing my life... but Sink Reflections has the answers to my problems.

I love this book!  I love the process the FlyLady suggests.  I can do this process.  I am doing this process, so  I'm off to shine my sink.